Hi Nolaq. I am not totally sure about all your questions. Try going to your CP, scroll to settings and options, then click edit options. There is quite a menu to establish/change your settings and maybe that will be what you need.
And, yes, you automatically subscribe if you start a thread or respond to one. There is a way to unsubscribe, again in the edit settings area.
Hope this helps.
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