Yay! ..thanks for the info.. I called around and found the AGC 4 amp at an electrical supply store. Then put on my reading glasses and confirmed that it says the same thing on the old fuse. looks like a black spot on the fuse wire so I guess thats where it died..
We also needed to get a new tire, and the dealership wanted $160..
my husband called a tire wholesaler and we got it for $49.00 installed on the rim.
This forum is soo helpful and saves us lots of $$