I havent logged in here in quite a while due to being work and traveling but I got the email that this thread was updated.
Since I've last posted, I did buy the specific wedge ands well. For me, that helped a bunch but the big thing was making sure the height was perfect hooking or unhooking. I think the hinge in the Revolution allows just enough movement up and down (very little but I can see it when looking very close when I put weight on it) that it'll bing up my 20k Titan hitch if it's too high or low. I imagine if I removed the plastic lube plate it would give enough room to not matter but once I figured out the trick I haven't had any problems since. Either hooking or unhook ingredients, I need to find the spot where I can just see at the back of the Revolution move. That tells me there is weight on the pin but not much. This allows me to latch or release with ease. If too much weight is pushing down, or its too high, my latch won't budge.
I've used mine probably 15 times or so now and as long as I do it correctly, it works great. I think all that said, the 20k Titan is heavy as heck. I'm really thinking going to an Anderson setup to make it easier to remove. However, with my shortbox, I don't want to give up my turning ability. There's always something.