Finally I found the LED's that I like. Not too bright, not blue and as close to the original incandescent bulbs.
So, I tried these first - they were more bright and more blue than the incandescent bulbs -
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0...?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I bought these next - they were less blue but still too bright for me -
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0...?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Then I bought these - and finally I am done with my search - They are slightly odd because I am so used to not being able to look at the lights - these only put the light down and out vs the other LED's or incandescent bulbs so you get the light but do't have to turn away from the lights themselves - hopefully that makes sense -
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0...?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I think I will have to buy a couple more - I bought two 12 packs - but I think I have 25 or 26 lights. I need to count them again. I replaced 12 tonight while testing in the storage lot. With all 12 lights on the voltage dropped 0.1vdc on my meter.