Welcome!! I felt guilty when we upgraded to a folddown!
As far as "going home" because you forgot somthing we did it quite often our first few times, I'm sure my neigbor had a tally sheet!!
We leave everything in ours except for our "camping clothes" that get washed then re-loaded.
Buy cheap plates or paper, silverware hand downs or Salvation Army, I am using my Grandparents cookware they bought when they started camping in the 50's my silverware was theirs also.
Once you get the basics, you just write a list the next time you need somthing.
Most important TAKE IT OUT, even to the park down the street!! Your kids will love you!
2011 Jayco Jayflight 22FB
2004 Ford F-150 5.4 Triton, K&N FIPK, Magna-flow muffler