If your device looks like this than it's a regulator
If it looks like this than it's a vacuum breaker
Either way you cant connect them backwards.
From what you are describing you are using a vacuum breaker when you say you pushed in on the center and water shot out. A breaker should go on the spigot end first, then connect the hose then connect the other hose end to your water connection on your trailer. I'd bet your water connection on your trailer has a breaker internally installed in it. Most newer ones do.
If you're using a regulator, I'd take it off, reconnect your hoses, turn on a faucet in your trailer somewhere and open your water spigot just a little bit. This way you wont build up a bunch of pressure that may damage you plumbing. I dont know how much water pressure you got at your house, mine is like 55 or 56psi. Which is pretty good for my area. Some run down into the 40's and I've heard of some residential over 80psi. We were at a campground that was running 85psi. That's a bit much in my opinion. My water hose looked like a python snake that just ate a family of goats it was expanded so much. Lol!
If you know your water pressure under say 60psi, I wouldnt even run a regulator.
Give that a try and see what happens