The most common abuses are letting them discharge to 10 volts or less, a discharged battery allowed to freeze, not keeping the acid level up on a FLA battery and overcharging with a regular non-maintaining charger. There are other reasons specific to AGMs. such as overheating them and extreme vibration, just to hit the highlights.
Plus not all batteries are created equal. If you're starting with junk, it's only down hill from there. Some batteries can handle the common abuses better than others. Even good ones can come out of the factory partially damaged. I put a high quality AGM in my wife's Tahoe a few years back, and it kicked the bucket (shorted cell) in just a little over a year. That's short, even for South Texas where we tend to cook them, and if you can get 3 years out of an automotive battery, you're doing okay. But that's what warranties are for.
If you're going with lead replacements, then AGM deep cycle batteries (not "dual purpose, but true deep-cycle) are your best bet IMO. In my experience, they'll tolerate more abuse than gel and A LOT more than standard flooded-cell batteries. Odyssey batteries have been "best in class" for a while, but that could've changed...
Wanted to add that no matter what kind of batteries you install, you need to be aware of the proper "care & feeding" of that particular battery class/chemistry. Personally, I like all of that to be as passive as possible. I had a flooded cell in my trailer IIRC, and I was kind of manic about taking care of it, and it got real old real quick. I just replaced the OEM flooded cell in my motorhome with a 100AH Li, and I only installed the one on purpose, because I didn't want to change out/install a bunch of things at the time. But I did it so my system is relatively passive for now, but "scalable" so I can add bits here and there to help me manage the system a little better, especially when I go to expand it some.