As for the campgrounds that require you to show up the first night, they also should include a policy that charges you for your entire visit if you are a no show and don't notify them by the next day. . This would help stop this problem quickly.
Agree 100%.
One of my favorite places to camp is a county park on an island in Tampa Bay. I have been camping there since the 80's. It was always difficult to get a reservation, and now I'm getting only cancellations - and none in the past year. The cancellations only last minutes - you have to be on their site at the time.
The county residents have a 7 month window to make reservations, the rest of us have 6 months. I don't like that, but can't disagree with it. Anyway, the residents book the whole campground within the 30 days they have that we don't. There used to be no charge for a cancellation, and now there is a $5 fee.
When we do get a spot, the campground is usually about 50% (very often less) occupied during the weekdays, and almost full on the weekends. New folks don't understand that, and ask about it. Those of us who understand tell them "They are here, you just can't see them".
Florida is usually booked solid for 10 months a year. We get reservations in July and August. For non-Floridians that's like getting reservations in January and February, the 2 months a year that are the least desirable.
We're usually state park campers, and those reservations have become all but impossible to get as well. I think the robots (reservation services) are winning the battle, and I'm getting tired of competing. Boondocking has never been a priority of ours, but it might be the only solution.
This is an attempt at humor: Maybe we should start a JOF members only camping program where we setup camp in a participants driveway. At least we would be getting out.