I feel the same about airliners that can land themselves! I watched a YouTube video of a cockpit video made during a takeoff in a 737 from a busy airport. During the time from first rolling down the runway, climb out and banking in a turn NEITHER pilot looked out the window once!

Scary to think that they were completely relying on an air traffic controller to keep them...and the passengers...safe.
True, but ATC personnel are human and make mistakes. I flew my own private plane in the crowded skies of Southern California for over 10 years and 4 times I had ATC turn me into oncoming traffic instead of away. Seems they confused calling traffic at 10 o’clock instead of the correct 2 o’clock position. Once on a flight to Catalina Island we were eye wittinesses to a near mid air collision between 2 747’s over the Catalina VOR. I was just about to notify ATC when the crew of the Qantas saw the United plane just in time to make a dramatic turn to avoid the collision. They immediately reported a near miss which would cause big problems for the controller. When I was a student pilot my instructor was always reminding me to “Keep your head on a swivel”…looking out the window for other traffic. Hopefully ATC has improved since my flying days..
I wouldn't count on it, as recently reported about a week ago, the FAA announced that they are now actively recruiting those with severe intellectual disabilities and psychiatric disabilities. (btw, I support those with disabilities obtaining employment, but some jobs are better suited for those with disabilities than other jobs).
Takeoff in an airliner is a busy time and we rely on ATC, along with the TCAS system I will address below. All aircraft flying in controlled airspace, which encompasses most airport terminal areas are required to have an operating transponder that is independent of any ground system. Assuming ATC somehow makes a mistake, TCAS will detect another aircraft on a collision course. It works well and may require abrupt altitude changes. The system alert you loudly to monitor a developing situation, or climb/descend. The last two will require immediate response. We trained for this in the simulator over and over. It's not pretty, but it works well. It has been around for many many years now. Over 34.5 years flying airliners I was involved in just a few real TCAS alerts. The first warning will paint a target in instruments. The next warning will ask you to monitor vertical speed. The system will paint a target in our instruments, and tell us whether he is below/above and climbing /descending. This warning was somewhat more common and most of the time resolved itself as the system was detecting a potential collision situation. This could happen if you you or the other traffic were climbing/descending to an assigned altitude at a higher rate than what the system thought it might be normal. The system does not know what the other target's assigned altitude is. Once the potential issue is resolved, it goes away. The next step is where you will more than likely piss off flight attendants and any unbuckled passenger lol. It will issue a climb/descent command, paint the target in red, and add a rate of climb/descent indicator in feet per minute required to avoid the other target. It requires immediate response. It will wake you up in a hurry! BTW- the system works anywhere and any altitude as long as you both have a transponder. I would rather be in the cockpit anytime rather than in a car, and feel far safer. ok, enough of a rant
PS- disregard the requirement indicated below. ATC will not allow you in any terminal area with radar without a transponder except in an emergency. And yes, stuff happens, yet flying is far safer than driving to the grocery store.
A
traffic collision avoidance system (
TCAS, pronounced
/tiːkæs/;
TEE-kas), also known as a
traffic alert and collision avoidance system, is an
aircraft collision avoidance system designed to reduce the incidence of
mid-air collision (MAC) between
aircraft. It monitors the
airspace around an aircraft for other aircraft equipped with a corresponding active
transponder, independent of
air traffic control, and warns pilots of the presence of other transponder-equipped aircraft which may present a threat of MAC. It is a type of
airborne collision avoidance system mandated by the
International Civil Aviation Organization to be fitted to all aircraft with a maximum take-off mass (MTOM) of over 5,700 kg (12,600 lb) or authorized to carry more than 19 passengers. CFR 14, Ch I, part 135 requires that TCAS I be installed for aircraft with 10-30 passengers and TCAS II for aircraft with more than 30 passengers. ACAS/TCAS is based on
secondary surveillance radar (SSR)
transponder signals, but operates independently of ground-based equipment to provide advice to the pilot on potentially conflicting aircraft.

Combined TCAS and
EHSI cockpit display (color) In modern
glass cockpit aircraft, the TCAS display may be integrated in the Navigation Display (ND) or
Electronic Horizontal Situation Indicator (EHSI).

Combined TCAS and
VSI cockpit display (monochrome) In older glass cockpit aircraft and those with mechanical instrumentation, an integrated TCAS display including an
instantaneous vertical speed indicator (IVSI) may replace the mechanical IVSI, which only indicates the rate at which the aircraft is descending or climbing.