I would do two things-
1) stop listening to random people on the internet, like me.
2) Have a licensed electrician look at your setup. But first, ask the electrician if they are familiar with RV wiring.
3) Get yourself a multimeter and a plug-in power management/surge protector. A good one hopefully won't let you screw up your rig wiring. Know how much voltage you're dealing with before you plug in.
4) If someone is telling you that it's ok to plug an RV into a 30 amp welder/dryer outlet, see #1 and #2 above.
5) Read at least 10 articles on RV electricity. Use common sense, and gradually you will be able to get a basic understanding of RV electricity, and you'll be able to discern between good advice and knucklehead advice.
6) Watch you tube videos- again, lot's of knuckleheads out there, so the more you watch, the better you'll be able to filter through them.
7) I guess that's more than two things-
8) You should know the difference between 30 amp 50 amp, and 20 amp service, and how to connect them to your rig BEFORE you plug in. We have 50 amp service on our rig. With an adapter, we can plug into 30 amp or 20 amp 120v service. At home we use an extension cord and a 20 amp adapter to keep the batteries charged. Of course with the 20 amp, we're not running a/c, electric water heater, or microwave.