Spoon is right, that bending would compromise the structural integrity, but since the stabilizer is only for added support, even if it failed (broke off) if wouldn't be a big problem in the short term. I'd just bend it back and use it.
One of mine has been bent, and it's a little more wobbily than the others, but good enough for me. I don't think it will fall off any time soon.
2011 Dodge Ram 1500 HEMI Quad Cab
2011 Jay Flight 26BH